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生活中的5个球
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0 k0 n0 S8 ]/ A0 v4 ^+ N2 @* ]2 a可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson+ j2 l t2 y+ M
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设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。) {: d1 V8 n; Q0 h; x8 a
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你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。
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你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。0 Z" c/ p. b, r; N
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怎样才能做好?
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9 q: I0 J$ Y% V" s( E( ?1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。3 { j2 K# X7 `, t& j
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2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。9 e5 x. C/ a9 z' }( l0 Q* r
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3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。
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: k) Y% q" Z. h% G: r- j4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。* m, Z) j1 F' W% t3 B6 n: E4 L
5 [+ X _$ m4 `3 d( V" w1 S5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。
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7 b$ p( [. O4 k3 Q$ |6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。
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, X( w- Q! V4 |7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。 7 v+ o/ E( V; h* q
K3 e! i8 U. y7 k' B8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。. _' j6 d+ q9 @. x4 f
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9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。6 X" O$ p/ P1 @* ] A
1 X r a0 x7 J6 M& N- O S10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。
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11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。
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9 D7 K0 E! L2 l" q12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。
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) `! }9 K, R7 ]9 B- c/ Y- |原文:+ G# F+ v5 T4 R( T. I' P. x
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Five Balls Of Life
& e' e. @; j/ N& U @( i! JThis was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.
. e/ s$ D7 K4 g, l: h* i2 C7 ?$ VIt was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:
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Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.- j# s- g* f3 W; Y0 I8 n* ` `0 U9 y2 S
You name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.
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1 |9 s/ U) r( C, [/ P0 \5 H) }! kYou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.8 b$ l1 N) }1 e8 g% U
They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?
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1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special./ X& T' T) I, Q
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2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.& p8 S( p1 ^3 W
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3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
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4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.& L K ` A7 d6 U' \: U4 }
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5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.$ r1 J& ^; \: c, y0 [9 r# S4 g
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6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.
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7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.) M% d+ h: y: O; ?9 G
0 k# ]9 C1 ~0 h8 b) t8 ~8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
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9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.
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10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
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* l" T" o3 x2 S) C# R5 H11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.' l& E6 [, |; X- c. x
& x& Q5 k& I( w1 S12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.! b6 I8 B& k# t A
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