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生活中的5个球5 L' ~( i% A* |3 t4 n$ g( m
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可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson
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* O) W' u0 Y, B, Q1 {* h设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。
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7 D+ i' P2 d0 Q2 j w1 K9 G你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。
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你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。3 _. }- o+ R' l$ Z0 k _! d
2 Z) ]9 v9 z7 J6 t怎样才能做好?
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1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。. n8 u) C. l9 I5 e( O# x2 J
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2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。
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3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。 W# M) o; s, U' s5 f' u" [
9 S* _8 ]* \1 C' z- g4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。
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5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。
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6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。
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7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。 ( V7 N, I; g5 P) c4 Q
# X6 n- C3 M3 [8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。
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9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。9 q* v3 U1 v: W- f2 b& K
& f' D. P% g' Z7 z( Z10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。% p+ W: Y. S5 a% L
5 c2 J/ D) B1 A; j11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。- n$ u9 O% ~1 w
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12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。
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Five Balls Of Life1 @3 K7 K# P+ f& m! {0 ?. P
This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.
: M1 {. F) L. c7 @& [) pIt was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:
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Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.
- T) [- I( ]2 @0 dYou name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.
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You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.! N/ b% o- d9 v3 C/ y) u" `$ ]
They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?! K7 @: p8 ?5 B) e' m( k
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1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.
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# o4 R8 |( v( a& m3 q$ q f2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you. _7 j8 I% E# r$ r8 E
, B& U/ |6 V! d# X* Y3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
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4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.
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/ V5 M4 V+ x% z/ T" d! `1 z, u9 ]5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.. p! T& ^4 }, c; Z
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6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.
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7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.4 u) T+ {4 y8 P2 T
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8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
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9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.
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10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated., z! g; ^# [; M7 I' F. _8 X/ ]7 u- Z6 k
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11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.+ G+ Q$ S4 R& W* ?! r: m
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12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.
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