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生活中的5个球
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可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson
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设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。
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你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。( g1 m9 y9 x8 r: W$ L5 D; E/ r
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你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。
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. A/ N$ M& T4 O. I) x/ Z; l怎样才能做好?. t) C% a, @/ h3 N: F( s4 D6 E" A
' Z9 F2 k6 z2 h6 f$ x! l1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。. A5 C* Q+ P" E- E
) Y9 D- i4 Z$ h. a1 r, ^/ r/ v2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。
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3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。. x# g0 e# X0 x; J
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4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。. D' Q6 b& b0 h" _* G
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5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。- H- G( w: I( K5 ?/ |/ }" U6 u
8 a3 p3 Z6 y- l) U: b3 q7 p( R6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。% r1 s) w3 l6 I+ z1 L4 p9 ~( G3 ~
( W7 P2 O6 ~$ ~9 h( X7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。 x. ~# T& m% u6 a" Q: o
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8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。
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- E4 q* Q* J2 Q7 y1 \. N9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。
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1 f# A5 X1 t7 o( |1 y10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。
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; b4 H) F, `* X% C11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。' [% y1 Z0 s i: [3 T! n7 v
& {4 R5 K1 |0 r7 {; k; W12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。
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原文:
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% k x1 g2 |6 `4 W4 j( h- Y4 |Five Balls Of Life
$ P' b% Y# K: h% D2 l& mThis was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.& r& u0 z r6 a/ h6 E1 r
It was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:
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Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.
; e5 Z" `$ R! W1 N& oYou name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.
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: O* h3 q# a/ ~1 B" k+ E1 VYou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.
9 j3 |$ @3 J. j# xThey will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?7 t) `8 G$ o1 n' t. R7 V
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1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special./ i1 G& B9 r0 O* ]. ^" J
( p7 U f5 s8 A' j$ C$ E3 _2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.
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! X9 i5 i' _: S* L$ t3 _. o3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
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( F1 n7 ?$ J/ n9 E) }" r9 `4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.
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5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.' I6 A" m9 i' a
, l3 i- Z1 j. a) l0 I6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.
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7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.; u2 E; G) Q- ~3 y5 P
7 X# D* L( y8 _( c* H H8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
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0 K4 i# O* }1 V' E/ S) r `3 h3 V9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.) F; x* K" M' ^
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10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.0 @8 e: s! F2 M- r) }- S; L# Y
4 X3 r2 g& S/ }) @% k( j11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.
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12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.2 T; ~+ U# _6 [* h# a7 I$ G, e6 D+ ?
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