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6 U6 A: S1 T/ D1 f' n4 P( D( m可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson1 y$ U# q- S, N. ^9 X1 p7 I
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设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。
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8 Q k- U1 y1 U- W/ m$ E你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。; a# _+ O& R" A( W$ o& c. }
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你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。
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怎样才能做好?
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1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。/ l2 a$ G1 e# o
0 V0 ^/ X+ C: D6 r2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。+ Y% u9 Z& F w
7 } ~1 u9 w% Y5 C8 s1 {0 v3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。( R* h$ M2 R3 r
2 B" q( D6 V/ L. j( \& k$ g: z4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。
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. y( R) ]) Q) N: Q4 u3 h5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。
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& `1 F# B6 A+ ~7 S; D' U6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。
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7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。
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8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。0 X( j" v; ^" H9 h6 z
+ G( M! E! p$ w3 U/ C% K+ @1 |9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。
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10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。9 K; N7 _: \9 X J, E
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11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。
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12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。
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原文:
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9 j }+ q/ k8 G, f8 LFive Balls Of Life
3 v+ Z( k: o+ l# C' hThis was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.% _; v- ~, g# [2 Y* K
It was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:
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# n) O' R. | o& tImagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.
2 ^ i6 l% `# p- a, W" U: E$ P+ pYou name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air./ K$ z% Y# }$ {8 u8 ]
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You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.
8 i+ d$ u* ~" j) EThey will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?
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1 ~$ o, g6 S2 F% k7 K2 \1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.
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2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.1 B3 O: D2 r4 {/ M/ p4 O. q
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3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
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! T$ X/ J, J0 _4 x4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.+ L1 D) K' l% L, z/ u$ T
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5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
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8 p: Z4 [, X3 j1 `) _3 ^% I6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together./ D9 E: g T0 q1 {/ n5 `/ m
5 l8 k0 H# ^% r$ u- D9 i4 _7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
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. J8 [) o4 ~( p' V& e8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.% w4 Y; P" Q1 z2 b# S2 B; E- J/ R4 U
~6 |8 Q& P6 M1 }1 n) o% @: Q- Y9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.
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) @ D& H, `/ r10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.' N8 [% D; L! J( u* o/ \
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11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.0 C( T9 a# l. h8 u7 [6 ~& q
2 X" i; w: `( }' \12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.
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